@aide and scamp—just because I like to discuss, disect, and analyze, does not mean I am a wife beater or a beaten husband. We’ve been together 15 yrs and have two girls 7, 4 that are the joy of our lives.
My wife’s father committed suicide after being sucked financially dry by a church some 20 yrs ago, and I was raised Fundamentalist Christian in northern New England. The church was a very destructive force in our lives, and in the lives of my parents. I feel that religion is the biggest scam ever pulled in the history of the world. And a study of religious history confirms many beliefs are BS.
We are spiritual but not religious, I prefer Eastern Phylosophy, and yoga and buddahism, but don’t feel it my mission to convert folks to my side. I don’t care who you marry or if you marry, I don’t care what you do in your bedroom, who you fuck or don’t fuck, and I remember as a young man deflowering many a pastor’s daughter during summer camp, and many a Mormon girl gave it up and then we would go to sermon in the evening and swear to god never to have sex, while planning the best place to do it next.