Hi Fluther, I have a situation with my actual boyfriend, he has developed the tendency to comment on how beautiful/ gorgeous a celebrity, actress or woman in TV look, this is all the time, before he did not do this, maybe from once in a while, but now is every single time.

I don’t want to brag about myself or my looks, but I have a very curvy, fit body, and many say I am very beautiful.Once again I don’t want to brag, this is so you understand this whole dilemma.

I suspect that since he knows that I look good, and that I have a great body (he has complemented me before, and he still does from time to time, but now he just talks about how beautiful actresses or TV personalities are, and how amazing their bodies look.

He is older than I by some years, I am younger, so I wonder if he does this to make me feel some kind of way, since he knows that I look good, and that I work out hard?

He has also seen me look in the mirror and admire myself, perhaps this bothers him, because he knows that I am a secure girl.

So I wonder if it all has to do with me showing that I am secure and that I love my attributes and that I do a lot of exercise?

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