We never had sex before and we decided not to have sex that evening because he didn’t feel it was the right time, but we got lost in the heat of the moment and at some point, he put his hand down my pants and started to finger me. The issue is instantly after there was a pause and he just said “no” and then went to the bathroom, stayed there for some time and came back all serious saying we should not do it and he is firm about it. Then he kinda rejected me, saying he has doubts about me, and left. We were not to see each other for 3 months and this is how the evening ended. I’m overthinking but any ideas what the heck happened???