One time while riding BART, I looked over and saw what looked like a guy sticking his finger into his eye socket. I thought it was a funny angle, so I took a picture of it.
When the guy stood up for his stop, it turns out it wasn’t just angle. The guy legitimately did not have an eye. I felt absolutely mortified that I had taken a picture of someone’s disability.
This was pre-smart phone and taken on a film camera so I couldn’t just delete it.
When I developed the roll, I was going to just destroy the photo. But I held it in my hand and decided to keep it as a reminder to myself that things are not always what they appear. And to be mindful about what we choose to capture on film.