He came here months ago and has almost no bills and a great room with dinner ready each night and laundry service. But I really thought that at 22 he’d look forward to moving out of grandma’s and to be on his own. He wont get a driver’s license and has been in bed since midnight . It’s almost 2pm. Yes, he had a dreadful childhood except when I kept him during the school year for 3 semesters in elementary school. My older daughter neglected him and they were both on drugs (my other daughter is a dream come true). He earned his Associate’s Degree while here in Psychology and wanted to become an RN. But with my pressuring him to move to an apt in town he is just crumbling. I feel bad for him but he is at a standstill. What should I say? He has been a Godsend for me by helping me out but he can be so nasty.