@katiesunrise I agree with @canidmajor that we need more context here. Because none of us here even gets to see the full posts you mentioned, we are forced to base our answer on your description.
But assuming what we see is what we get…
Ok, I’ll probably give you the British accent one, given that it may be a joke taken out of context, but is there any justification in calling someone a misogynistic pig? Just because someone is harassing you doesn’t mean you have to sink to their level and insult them. As I said before, I don’t attack back, I just block them and report them. Insulting someone doesn’t only make you look bad, but also gives whoever you’re insulting ammunition to prove you’re bad even when you clearly aren’t. I suspect this is how you got sent to jail.
And the way you say “Lighten up, Francis” seems to me like you already made up your mind that FB is totally in the wrong and you have nothing to do with it, and whoever saying otherwise is just being as unreasonable as FB. Do you think it’s time to do a bit reflection on yourself and try to see the situation more objectively?
I agree there are occasions when FB is unfair, but there are also occasions when it isn’t the case.