”...where to work, pray, eat and learn”
For most folks, those aren’t really “big decisions”.
People work where they can get a job, and are mindful of opportunities for better career paths. But they generally try to work in a way that fosters pursuing their work choice.
“Where to pray” is not a big decision- one follows one’s own belief system, But prayer can occur anytime and any place.
If one spends more than ten minutes trying to figure out where or what to eat, you really aren’t hungry and you are making a big deal over a minor matter that will be of no consequence two hours after it occurs.
What to learn is, again, more a matter of following one’s heart and interests.