Like others say, visit the doctor. But also remember it is a process that takes time—if you’re ready for a kid, don’t give up! Have a very serious talk with your man to make sure you are both fully devoted to the idea. And to some extent, be patient. Getting pregnant takes time sometimes. I read an article recently that parents these days expect to get pregnant much faster than they did in the old days. You’ve worked at it a while and should definitely see your OBGYN, but also remember that patience is a big part of it. To some extent, pregnancy is a waiting game with a bit of logic and luck attached.