I felt lonely married, but after realizing that I was with the wrong partner, I divorced and found happiness doing my own thing.
I am not a party drinking person and do not enjoy that kind of entertainment, I prefer a healthily lifestyle outdoors and around energetic healthy adventurous people.
The only thing stopping me now is finances and time.
After my projects are fulfilled my next goal is to do more active things .
I realized sometimes its the crowd isn’t right for me, so look else where likeminded people gather, then one will find more happiness fitting in.
At present I live in a seniors apartment block surrounded by others who think that drinking and partying is all there is in life?
They have in short given up to an old way of living, but that is there choice, but it doesn’t have to be mine.
I have observed over the 8 years that I have lived in this complex those very people are soon ill, depressed, and going downhill fast, all because they choose unwisely.
Some have passed on already far too soon which the heavy drinking had resulted in their health went downhill.
“Know thyself” and then one would find a happier path.
One just has to find what excites you and moves one forward with a group or not , up to you.