My boyfriend didn’t talk to me for two days because I reloaded the dishwasher after he had loaded it. I think that’s a bit much of a reaction. Also, he says things like, “Those pants make you look fat.” but when I tell him that hurts my feelings he says, “PHAT fat”, but that’s not a term for thighs, hips, and butt which my pants contain. The internet says he’s a narcissist. What kind of help would a narcissist recommend I get for him?