Only in marketing. I have a leather scented tub of lube my girl doesn’t like, but works for all other purposes.
It could be that some lubes marketed to gay men are water or silicon based, and thus compatible with latex condoms, but you should always check labels before pairing anyway.
The only difference I’ve ever seen is between standard medical grade lube and porn industry grade lube. When you need something to stay lubed all day porn industry grade is the way to go.