@cookieman It’s fine with me, I’m the one who proposed it. He’s going through a bad time and I just wanted him to feel welcome without having to decide dates, so we offered to fly him down to Florida.
First he is having Thanksgiving with his parents in South FL, then taking the train up to us (4 hour train ride, I’m an hour north of Orlando). If he’s enjoying himself he can stay for a while, if he wants to leave he can fly back within a few days. I really hope he enjoys it here and wants to stay a couple of weeks. His husband isn’t coming, so I’m sure he won’t want to stay here too long with Christmas coming.
When my family comes to where I live they want to do everything, they write up a calendar full of activities. My husband’s family are less likely to participate or even bother to read what’s available, but I’m not sure about his brother. We’ll see.