They may live in your house, but she is not your fucking kid. Leave her the fuck alone and let your SON (Or whoever her real parents are) do the parenting. Simple as that.
@canidmajor I agree. Seriously, what response was he expecting? “Oh, It’s okay to harass your granddaughter when literally everyone in that house is telling you to stop?”
Just because it’s your house, does not mean you get to interfere on other people’s shit.
also what is the point of the _“The DIL has a baby (From an affair)” Who cares? If your son is raising it as his own, then it doesn’t matter.
”And my wise acre son had found an old photo of myself and my wife when we were dating, and his mom was in skimpy cut off shorts and a revealing halter top. But that was a different era and has no bearing on my grand child. Note to self: hide that photo.”
What does a different era have to do with it? Why would it not be the same? How old was your wife? Why was she wearing such revealing clothes at that time?
Do you see why your concern over the outfit is stupid? Especially when her actual parent says it’s okay?