Is it unreasonable to think I shouldn't have to be the only one to change how I do things?
In regards to friendships, relationships, whatever.
In my previous post I talk about how I struggle with certain things communication wise. People need to be clear and straightforward or I won’t get it.
I also am super emotional, and am very black and white, zero to 100 with how my emotions work.
I am trying to change how I respond, and have gotten better and stepping back, taking a breath, and addressing the situation after I have had time to logically think things through.
But also, why can’t people who want some type of relationship with me adjust to that? Why can’t some people learn how I communicate and try to help make things easier? I really hate it. Why should I always be expected to change? Can’t people just adapt to me?
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