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Why do my worries and concerns always get dismissed?

We have 3 puppy siblings and he’s doing everything you aren’t supposed to. I believe they are going to get that syndrome.

We had a dog who was breathing weird and had bumps on her back for years. She ended up dying because of fluid build up around her heart. I was young and couldn’t do anything. I told him so many times but he never listened.

We had another dog who would literally limp so bad he was hopping on 3 legs, and my dad still took him out to play because “he needs exercise”. Turns out he had severe arthritis. I would tell at my dad for still playing, he never listened.

That same dog had melanoma in his mouth and my dad thought it was a cut (before the tumor grew and was obvious, it just bled a lot). I told him something was weird and he never listened.

Now we have the puppies and I love them so much. They are so sweet and I just want them okay. I don’t want them to kill each other and I don’t want them to have that syndrome. I am so irritated that no one listens to me.

I get told “I’m too much of a mom”. “I worry too much.” “I overthink too much.”

What the hell. Am I just too nervous and worry too much??

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