I plan on being cremated with no funeral. I see NO reason for an obit either!!! I’ve told ALL my friends to NOT be bugging my brother as he’ll be following my wishes. In place of an inconvenient funeral, I’ve requested that any of those who care to take 10 minutes (or however long they feel appropriate) of their day to remember me in a way they feel from their heart. Maybe remember some of the old partying that we did when we were young & dumb, remember the smile (or evil grin), remember my pearls of wisdom. Even IF they don’t have any fond memories, have “I’m glad the old bitch is gone” moment. Remember the good or remember the bad. Just DON’T sit around crying!!!