@KNOWITALL They weren’t strangers, they were/are friends of mine.
I like to hug too, especially my close friends. I can kind of understand though. I remember when I was younger often times when out dancing the young men only asked to dance during a slow dance. I said no if it was a stranger or someone I barely knew. My friends all thought I was mean and horrible. I didn’t want to be in an embrace with some guy I didn’t know well.
We went to dinner two nights ago with friends we hadn’t seen in 20 years. We never were very close friends, we knew them through his work, but always really liked them. They immediately put out their arms for big hugs. I didn’t ask my husband what he thought.