People just say True Love is a thing. It’s not.
What people are trying to tell you is not to complicate your life while you’re a young adult. You won’t appreciate it now, but even the little choices you make have a way of following you. Your best shot at fulfilling your career potential is now, and most people who choose relationships early have at least some regret about their career or education.
It’s hard for people to tell young adults to fuck without fucking themselves over, so they made up some fiction about true love. At least it’s a bit better than the bullshit ancient morality they used to throw around about sex outside of marriage being evil.
Truthfully, love is always complicated, and most of the time, it doesn’t work out long term, especially when you are young, so people try to encourage young adults to focus on themselves rather than shaping their so-important years around long term relationships.
In my opinion, relationships are pro-social work too. Yes, they don’t pay as well, but the benefits are good. But, truthfully, it’s a lot easier to figure that part of your life out when you’re financially independent.