Honestly, neither. I’m very chill. There are very very very few things that make me want to react in an aggressive way.

@elbanditoroso That is so great to hear :)

Whatever the situation calls for. :-)

Yes. And I mean no.

Because you deserve a real answer.

It’s whatever.

Regular ol’ aggressive when the situation calls for it.

@JLoon I appreciate a real answer and thank you for saying that I deserve one…
@raum I hope I’m never on the other end of that :(

I really don’t like passive aggressive behavior so I just opt for plain old aggressive when needed. Once in a blue moon, I slip into scary aggressive, but that’s taking it too far the other way.

You think I’m aggressive? Nah, I’m the most chilled person I know. Ask my entire family. But then again you won’t because you already want to judge me and you may not like the answer, so well, you can think whatever you want. I don’t care. I’m too chilled to get involved in drama ~

My husband is the.most passiv e/aggressive person I know. :(

@Mimishu1995 I won’t judge you, I don’t judge anyone. Why do you think I would judge you? Are you trying to drum-up drama, yourself? Sorry if you took my silly question so serious.
@Dutchess_III I’m sorry to hear that :(

@RayaHope: Look at the very end of @Minishu1995’s post, there is a tilde (one of these: ~)

In Fluther speak that denotes sarcasm.

She’s kidding. She a kidder like that.

@cookieman I so often miss that stuff, hard for me to realize sarcasm online :(

ATTENTION ENSIGN TRENDY: SARCASM DRILL IN PROGRESS.

Secure personal equipment and remain alert until further notice.

And no smiling.

@JLoon: You forgot this.

~

@JLoon NO SMILING!!!! Ugh! ....and it’s ensign Tendi but you can call me Trendy..hehe Oh s#it was THAT sarcasm…damn!! Well, I’m ready for my assignment Ma’am! (trying to not smile)

ATTENTION CADET COOKIEMAN: ALL ASPECTS OF SARCASM DRILL ARE IN EFFECT ON POSTING, AND WILL NOT BE DELAYED BY REQUESTS FOR ADDITIONAL SYMBOLS OR PUNCTUATION. FAILURE TO COMPLY WILL RESULT IN SPANKING – OR DISCIPLINE OF YOUR CHOICE.

@RayaHope – THAT’S BETTER…TRENDY.

@JLoon YES MA’AM!! Reporting for duty! :)....dammit..:(

@JLoon: Spanking, you say. Hmmm.

Oh, my @cookieman you would pick that out of all this…lol

@RayaHope I understand it can be hard to detect sarcasms online, but you can look at the entire context to judge whether it’s a joke or not. For example, this question is clearly asked as a joke question. And the answer is so over-the-top (“I’m the most chilled person I know”, do you think someone in the right mind would say something like that unironically)? That’s most likely a joke.

Generally I’m quite good at detecting sarcasm. Ultimately it’s about slowing down and now going for the first reaction we have.

@Mimishu1995 With my disability and jumping to quick conclusions I do make mistakes, and I find it hard to slow down at times. I do know that some people are a little extreme in their self assessment and I just figured you were being honest in thinking you were the most chilled person you know. I’m so sorry and I try to not judge people by a few comments since I know I can say some silly stuff also.

Just regular aggressive.

Jerk.

@Demosthenes HA! Right back at cha! :)