In this particular situation, I do NOT see you as doing something stupid as you had NO reason to not trust her at the time it was happening!!! This is part of growing up & becoming an adult. Learn from this experience & just don’t be quite so trusting with her next time!!!
You’re NOT being stupid as long as you’re LEARNING from your mistakes!!! Our BEST life lessons come from our DUMBEST actions!!! The stupidest thing that I ever did in my life lead me straight to the BEST thing that ever happened to me…so, I’m NO longer sorry for doing the stupid thing!!!
In your case, learn to listen to what people are actually saying to you. When someone says “this will make you feel better”, it usually means that drugs or alcohol are involved, so take it from them & politely say “thank you” & then toss it in the first trash can that you find!!! Better to throw away a good piece of candy than get tricked into being high!!! IF you really want to eat that candy, throw away what was handed to you & go to the store where you can BUY your own that’s still in the sealed wrapper & you know is safe!!! The reality of this situation is that it could have been MUCH worse. You could have been on a date, with no one around but the person who drugged you trying to take advantage of you with NO place to escape to. At least this was a friend who probably meant NO harm. You may have been messed up, but you were able to make it home to safety until you could get your head straightened back up!!! The fact that you didn’t enjoy your first experience will probably deter you from experimenting for fun!!! You’ll be starting college soon & this lesson could be a good one because you’ll have a better idea on what to be prepared to recognize.
Just be MORE careful from here on out!!! When you go to a party, keep your drink in your hand at ALL times!!! Not very convenient but you will know that NOBODY spiked your drink as long as you have it in your hand & know who was near it!!! I learned that one the hard way after having 2 nights that I couldn’t remember a damn thing the next day & I mean remember NOTHING!!!