I used to love the trips I would take with my family – trips to Cape Cod every year. They’d rent a house and I’d go for a week. Lots of grilling dinner on the deck, going to the beach, to the lake, little shopping expeditions to the same towns year after year. That was relaxing.
I like a long weekend trip, too. Not as relaxing but just a fun change of pace.
I used to find trips to DIsney World to be not relaxing at all. They were memorable and fun in their own way, but required a ton of planning and a lot of money, and once there, tons of walking, so not relaxing at all. I have no urge to go back there any time soon.