Math, 8th grade, Mr. Fontana. Asshole didn’t recognize that maybe I needed more of something that I wasn’t getting, and only paid attention and interacted with the kids who did great. Meanwhile, I couldn’t seem to memorize simple addition or multiplication tables and counted on my fingers or guessed. What a jerk.
My dad got pissed at me every report card and I’d get a spanking for an F, which I got regularly in math. But did he help me? Noooo… I still don’t get why he didn’t help me. He was Dean of Engineering at a university. Why didn’t he see I had a problem and figure out a way to help me? Asshole too, as far as that situation goes. Still don’t know addition or multiplication by heart.
Likely had ADHD, but not diagnosed with adult ADD until my 30’s. When I was growing up it wasn’t even a thing. Even if it had been, my folks wouldn’t have acknowledged that I might have something that would spoil the public display of the perfect family. Fuckit. Long over now.