My grandmother still wore her ring at times when she became a widow.
I think my grandmother still felt she was Mrs. Lastname for a long while after my grandfather died, even though she was always very independent.
If I remember correctly she even wore it when she later was in a relationship with another man after the death of my grandfather.
I wear that ring now, it’s one of my many rings. My sister took it initially when my grandmother passed away, but she gave it to me a few years later, because she said she wasn’t wearing it. I love it. I think of my grandmother whenever I put it on, but not so much that it was a wedding ring, more that it was her ring.
The ring can be so symbolic. It’s not really about how others perceive the ring, it’s more about how you feel about the ring. Do you feel it’s a symbol of you not moving on because you still wear it? Your husband did not pass away very long ago. More importantly, I don’t think wearing the ring has to symbolize that at all. You can just like the ring! Your memories with your spouse are there, ring or not.
You can always take it off for a while and then go back to it. See how you feel. In my opinion there are no rules.