Well first off, I’ve always found it weird that I don’t really get turned on by touching or looking at the person I’m sexually involved with. You know, like, men when they look at a girl or touch her breats he immediately get’s turned on. And women when they feel a mans six pack or whatever. The thing that usually only works is them touching me or just randomness. But more importantly, when I’m being sexually intimate with someone, I’m very reluctant to DO anything TO my partner. It just doesn’t seem enjoyable to touch and suck and do sexy things like everyone makes it seem to be.
I don’t want to believe that it’s just cos I’m selfish and lazy but I don’t want to beleive that there is something wrong with me. Is there something I can do to change this about me? Is anyone else like this? Is it because I’m young and inexperienced? Or maybe this is stemming from a psychological issue like I’m afraid to be any dort of dominant in fear of doing the wrong thing? Help.

Topics: psychology, people, sex, problems, intimacy