do you want to be nice or just be done with it?

if you want to be nice, take the time to explain that you dont feel the way you need to for a relationship.

if you just want to be done with it, tell him to move on while you follow your Personal Legend.

In either case, be kind and remember to use compassion at all times…

Be honest. (not so much about the other guy) Say something like, “We have had some special times, but my feelings have changed. I need to move on with my life. I hope very much that you can do the same and be happy.”

I agree with M & M no reason to dump him/her and hurt his.her feelings. A little kindness goes a long way. No reason you can’t be friends w/o the romance.