I’m actually one of these students. I dropped out of high school at the end of my sophomore year where I learned that there are some colleges that accept students who do not have their high school diploma (many are community colleges where you can earn your associates and then transfer into 4 year colleges). Many colleges (this also depends on what state you are in) allow students to get their GED after earning 30 credits – 15 which usually has to have the following subjects: math, english, social science, science, history.
I will probably earn my high school diploma this way (GED rather); however, I understand how many students can get their PHD without one. For example, if I transferred from my community college (with my associates) to Oklahoma University, they do not require me to present a high school diploma or GED. This is because I already proved myself during my time at a community college and an Associates Degree is higher than a high school diploma/GED. Therefore, when students apply for Grad school, I highly the schools will ask for a high school diploma. They will most likely look at the college material. Why? Because a student can do well in high school and fail college or the other way around.
As for jobs, just explain your situation. Many people will understand and if they do not, then this is not a place for you. What I would do is, if they ask for high school material, I’ll just show them my college material. Many will assume that if you did well in college, high school was a breeze. It would make no sense for a company to declare someone with their BA just because they do not have a high school diploma/GED.
I actually want like to meet other students with the same situation, so please message me if you are in this situation. :) Because it is still tough to finish college and transfer etc. without a high school diploma/GED. I really would love it if I could read/hear of other people stories. Also, if anyone that did drop out of high school would like more information/help, then feel free to message me. I’ll be happy to help or find other people to help you. My email is: silly.michelle.young@gmail.com.
Remember: All roads lead to Rome. You just have to find the best path for yourself. And high school (public, private, whatever) isn’t for everyone.