I’ve got a very significant career move in store for me with about a 35% pay raise this year. And another 20% next year (all in writting). Thing is, I’m 27, single, and leaving many friends and family behind in NYC. I know it’s something I should do but…. Wow, it’s quite a change. I was born and raised in NYC, and have never left except for a couple years in Oswego county back in late ‘99 and 2000. Anyone have some advice?