Hey, forgive me gothgirl, for leeching off your question, but i have a similar problem.
I have a long time friend that i would consider my closest male friend. For the past year we had a secret friends with benefits relationship… he had a girlfriend at one point but the friendship remained, and the sex stopped, and that was cool with me. I’d rather him respect his girl friend than anything else, cause I know what it’s like to be decieved. They have broke up however, and since the break up things have gone back to normal…. but have changed.
I had moved away to school, and prior to moving home for the summer he called me almost every night, just to chat most of the time. I just assumed he could be lonely. He also on several occassions told me he couldnt wait till I was coming home because he misses me, but I just dismiss that as being him lonely again, and looking forward to me coming home because we confide in each other alot.
Since I moved home, I feel as though he makes an effort now, (that wasn’t there before), to make sure I am comfortable and happy.
But he asked to hang out tonight, and i had already made plans with another guy friend of mine (completely plutonic in all ways) to go for a drive so i explained i had made plans to go for a drive and he made a crude comment asking me what his dick looked like. i just joked and brushed it off, and told him to call me tmrw to hang out…. then my friend picked me up and we drove, we came to a corner and there was the guy im interested in his car with some broad.
I think hes just jealous…and I don’t know what to think of the girl…i didnt recognize her, but hes got alot of female friends, and i dont want to jump to conclusions because i was doing the same thing….driving with a friend of the opposite sex.
so do you think it was him being jealous, or should i have something to worry about?