Fluther is pretty well behaved. Even the nastier questions I’ve seen are well behaved. The other day someone posted a question about biking instead of driving that had some nasty attitude going on. People were at first nasty to each other, but in the end it evolved into a discussion of how the question got off track and what behaviors people felt enabled the nastiness. So even our meaner questions seem to become good learning experiences for the future. Uggg, and now I sound like my mother.