Some of you may remember that I asked for help here months ago with a so-called friend – a lawyer, no less – who borrowed a LOT of money and forgot he’d signed a note promising to pay it back. It took me six months of steady, initially fruitless meetings, phone calls, letters handed to him by neutral parties when he wasn’t guarding himself from being served, and threats of legal action, before he paid up. I enjoyed wanting to hurt him but I’m glad I didn’t.
Putting out that kind of energy keeps the whole thing going. What I really needed was to have it be over with. Flutheristas helped me think about how to make that happen.