Let’s see.
1. My first ex, oh man it was a hard one maybe because it was my first. But yeah, I dumped him because he fell for my friend and I couldn’t deal with that. What did I do? I ignored him for a while, then we eventually became good friends again. But I made him understand that I needed time ( we were best friends since kindergarden, I guess it was easier for me to move on).
2. This was harsh. It took me about 1 year to FULLY get over him. And what did I do? I put my focus on something else – school and exercise. At first I would watch movies and stay home, then I started to go out and make new friends and everything was okay. Because what I realized towards the end was that it wasn’t worth moping over.
3. We broke up because of distance, and I just couldn’t talk to him for a while. I started to have my own fun again, but yeah…that’s it.
Just try to keep your mind off of it. Movies, friends, parties, school, exercise – anything.
My friends ends up watching Mean Girls 395704825 times – that is if you’re a girl.
Now, my guy friends (who usually ends up being friends with their exes) ends up thinking of all the negative things that happened during the relationship. One of my exes totally took it out on school, his grades went from high C’s to low B’s to straight A’s.
Just find something you enjoy & keep your mind off of it.
Good Luck!