i think that’s exactly right and takes a grew level of maturity. (sorry about the “dude” remark by the way) lol. i believe i am at the same stage most of the time, however, i believe it to be inevitable that even tho u may choose to be this way, it almost certainly crosses your mind at least once everytime you do something that may be questionable in the eyes of others. wearing pajamas to the store, now, if youre being completely honest with yourself, don’t you have to run that thought through your head everytime? the thought of “i don’t care what they think”, or “that guy doesn’t interest me anyway.” and keep in mind im not saying this is wrong at all, im just saying it’s a weird thing i think only humans have to deal with. and i would respect a girl like that more. because she would be interesting, and i knew she had something different from the “other girls” so in actuality, the fact that u would be happy with yourself no matter what would benefit you