LOt’s of pressure. You gotta get chocolates for the kids, flowers and a card for the wife. You run all around finding these things, and that is a bitch, because you don’t have time to do it. Then you pray, pray, pray it’ll make them happy. You always feel like you have to top last year to keep them happy, and then you curse yourself for making next year even harder.
It’s a no-win situation. If you do it right, they get what they expect (and all you get is no sullenness in the family), and if you screw the pooch, you’re in the doghouse for a week. It’s not possible to make people happy. The best you can hope for is to not make them pissed at you.
Of course, this is true for every occasion like this: birthdays, mother’s day, your anniversary, Christmas. That’s what I hate about these things. You can lose, but you can never win. It takes the same amount of trouble to achieve either.