Chivalry’s only dead if you believe it is, for we act the way we believe.
As a woman, I am the recipient of kind acts (doors being held open) pretty often, enough to conclude that many men in Canada are chivalrous, with no overtones of sexism, simply overtones of kindness. I make sure to give thanks after such events to reciprocate the kindness, and thus the balance of kindness in the world goes up.
I go out of my way to be kind to men and women alike. I will hold doors open, make the elevator wait, offer the last shopping cart, etc, for kind-looking people regardless of sex or age. I don’t see it as chivalry, I see it as tongue-in-cheek sorta karma, or simply an extension of the golden rule: I do good things for people because I appreciate any good things done for me.