If it happens when you least expect it, it usually means you aren’t trying. When you don’t try, you are more natural, and more open, and that’s when love can find you. When you try hard, you are on edge, and fake, and yuck!
That’s not the way it happens with me. I always know when it’s coming. I see the girl, honk my horn twice, she approaches the window and I say “How much?”.
I think we find love when we least expect it because when we aren’t looking for it then we have no expectations. When you have expectations you are looking for someone with no flaws what so ever.