I have a girl that booty calls me waay more than I booty call her. We’ve kept it quite simple, and it hasn’t gotten complicated in the least. I don’t go out with her, or might see her out from time to time, but it isn’t awkward.
I will agree that women are just as guilty as men when it comes to booty calls… if you say no to a booty call enough times, you won’t get the calls anymore. And if you say yes sometimes, then expect a call from time to time.
I would never try and booty call someone that I haven’t been with before…and I’m sure most men just don’t start going through their phone calling each woman in his contact list to get laid. You only call people you have been intimate with at some point, or have had some sort of intimate relation with.
And I disagree with the numbers thing. I like sex just as much as another guy, but you won’t see me going girl to girl trying to hook up at a bar. In fact, I would avoid hook ups at bars anyways. I would say most men are not like your cousin Aprilsimnel. It sounds like he’s just trying to find someone to sick with his unit.
bottom line is… women make booty calls too, maybe not quite as much, but you cannot deny them making the call. If you don’t want to be a booty call, tell the person calling you that, and you’ll probably notice they won’t call you again.