Oh, kevinhardy. If you want a kinky goth chick, then find social situations in which you might meet some people like that: Sometimes trendy coffee houses, night clubs, or stores that specialize in goth clothing.
If you go around asking for a succubus, you are going to get the WRONG type of response. Remember to be yourself, and don’t act like a poser trying to throw around goth terminology. You don’t need to speak any kind of “dark lingo” in order to attract a goth girl (trust me, I know many of them). And by asking for a succubus, you just betray yourself as overly eager and naive (since any goth with real knowledge of the spiritual world would look at you like you’re crazy).
Just be yourself and remember that kinky goth girls are still real girls with real feelings. When you find one, treat her with respect and kindness, not like she’s a character in a fantasy book!