You all are very funny. Good advice I might add.
@ daloon, we started chatting, and talking on the phone before he got married. He did tell me about him getting married, he hasn’t hid anything about that. We stopped talking for a few months, then started back up, this became the time we became very close. Intimate No, I don’t do cyber stuff, a lot of flirting and things but no intimacy. Put it this way, I am very intuitive, and I do sense that he is a good guy. Good family man. We agreed to meet only because, I am not from his country and I was leaving and did not know if I was coming back. You know one of those things where you don’t want to live with any regrets, as always we had a great time, talking and laughing. We have some sort of spiritual connection, I can feel when he is having a bad day, and he can feel when I am too. We always here from each other text or something, with the message of I know your having a trying day…Stay focused or something of the sort. Lately we don’t talk much, but we still are friends. We will always be friends. He has brought so much laughter in my life, when I needed it the most. I just got out of a 15 year marriage when he came into my life. I am on a spiritual journey finding myself. And at a time when I was very negative about men, he came into my life. Not through a chat line or anything that, it was just a fluk, we met through a business website. For some reason I was drawn to him like I knew him before. That never happens to me. But I am not sure-reason, season, or a lifetime, I know you heard of that. But I do know, he appears to be everything I would look for in a man, except for the fact he is married. I am not looking for anything, I figure when the time comes that right someone will come, with no strings attached. I do agree meeting one time is not enough to know for sure, but we both agreed that we should not meet again. I got confused at one point, not sure of what he wanted from me. But to me the most important thing is what I want for myself and my child. I know his wife is younger than he, and very jealous, even of his first two children’s mother. So, not sure if she knows about me, and I know I don’t want to create chaos in no ones family. We have talked about his relationship with his wife, prior to them getting married, and there were a lot of hostility, but you know you must go through it for yourself, and ride the waves and hope that it works. I hope they are happy, really. Everyone deserves that.