Listen and hug. Also later on chat like old times. If you live nearby, you can help provide transportation to the hospital (and if chemotheraphy is needed, hang out with her if she wants company and chat..the time goes by fast chatting during chemotherapy). Run errands or such.
I am sorry to hear about that. My childhood friend was diagnosed almost 5 years ago and it seems like yesterday when first heard about her being diagnosed. I remember we were all so shocked and saddened.
For the first 2 years, I would send her a get well card once a month. And dropped off meals and chat.
I remember the feeling….shock, denial, anger or frustration of why, then grief and acceptance. Take time in each phase for her, you and rest of family and friends.
A mutual friend walked 39 miles for Susan Koman breast cancer walk recently in honor of her and the mutual friend’s mother who was also affected by cancer. We were all so touched by her tribute.
If she needed a break from the hospital and at home, take her to a little day trip to the coast or (lake or river) or restaurant with a view or her favorite places, it could be a book store or restaurant.
Will send a little prayer to all those affected by cancer.