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If a guy doesn`t know what kind of personality a girl has but he still likes her, why does he like her?

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) March 15th, 2009
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There are boys at my school who never even talked to a certain girl but have a crush on them, how does this work is it because of their looks or what?

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Maybe shes really hot

laxrrockr18 (276

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@laxrrockr18 so the looks

LouisianaGirl (1159

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Maybe the guys in question are superficial dimwits.

gailcalled (54644

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physical attraction

willbrawn (6614

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Thats basically why “guys” are initally attracted to a girl.

willbrawn (6614

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@gailcalled haha
well can I tell the truth now, this is really embarrasing but there are some older guys at my school that like me but I never really talked to them except for once at a basketball game. So I was wondering why they are like that when they don`t really know me.

LouisianaGirl (1159

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does she have large mammary glands and wear low cut tops?

Lightlyseared (34617

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The voice is the key for me.

ponderinarf (204

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as @Lightlyseared pointed out it could also be that, that is what a lot of guys look at when they first see a girl, and what attracts them to her.

laxrrockr18 (276

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@Lightlyseared NO!!!

LouisianaGirl (1159

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Physical attraction and just plain interest.
Some people are just interesting to some, whether it be looks, clothing, facial expression, etc. and that feeling of the crush is to find out just what’s so interesting about them…
So the older boys that have crushes on you most likely find you interesting, in one way or another :)

lc (349

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@lc oh…..... okay

LouisianaGirl (1159

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@LouisianaGirl sorry I missed the bit where we started talking about you

Lightlyseared (34617

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heh, I have a boy who’ve I’ve never seen in real life who is head over heels for me. I should ask him. :-/

asmonet (21445

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@Lightlyseared right above where you said does she have large mammary glands and wear low cut tops
so before you start jumping all over someone make sure you read the stuff first

LouisianaGirl (1159

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@LouisianaGirl lightlyseared definitely did not appear to be ‘jumping all over’ anybody, just proposing something (which is true in a lot of cases). it didn’t sound like they were implying something about you, especially since they said they didn’t know it was you, and they apologized for not reading that it was about you. not everyone reads all the comments before replying every time they post something.

tiffyandthewall (6082

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@LouisianaGirl when I posted your quip hadn’t appeared for me yet. I only read it after I posted when the page refreshed.

Lightlyseared (34617

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@Lightlyseared its okay i forgive you

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