Fluther: What is one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?

What is one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?

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) March 23rd, 2009
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CHEATING!!!

trumi (6491

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same as trumi

Jude (32198

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definitely cheating!!

forestGeek (9310

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Ditto!

Mr_M (7621

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Yes, infidelity. No second chances there…..

JellyB (943

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Deliberate dishonesty.

please_not_to_ask2 (209

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Aside from cheating (I think you’d be hard-pressed to find someone who would tolerate that) Jealousy gets me. A little jealousy is all right, even expected, but when my SO doesn’t like me talking to other men, I chuck him like yesterday’s garbage.

KatawaGrey (21483

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@please_not_to_ask2 Ditto. Deliberate lying is a deal breaker. Also, abuse of any kind.

Likeradar (19583

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Cheating.

Dutchess12 (1590

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Lying.

jonsblond (43766

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Disrespect.

dynamicduo (14392

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Abuse, physical or otherwise.

_Liz (226

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Hard drugs is a no-no; addiction of anything is a deal breaker.

Mr_M (7621

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Flatulence in bed?

Ender (177

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Flatulence in bed you really have no control over… if she can take mine i can take hers…. but what i won’t tolerate is ass play…. or cheating…

Dr_C (14339

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@Dr_C lol@ass play

_Liz (226

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physical abuse

dearest_prudence (464

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@dearest_prudence what about verbal?

_Liz (226

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@_liz, I have dealt w/that enough, not so much since I had joined wis.dm, but I find I would rather be put down than have my jaw broken
I will tolerate it, but I can give as good as I get, that usually puts a stop to that

dearest_prudence (464

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Any type of dishonesty and fanatical conservatism.

AstroChuck (37609

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Perpetual nagging/yelling.

kenmc (11773

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@boots- did you take out the trash yet?
take out the trash boots
boots, take out the trash

lol

dearest_prudence (464

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@dearest_prudence Oh, God… shutters

kenmc (11773

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I won’t tolerate mental abuse, or mental games.
I’ve had guys that have tried to make me look small because of their own insecurities.

chyna (51326

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lying/deception

bprz (40

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Cheating, abuse, massive deception (I’m cool with a surprise party, I’m not down with your wife in Iowa), and games that make me keep a mask on.

EmpressPixie (14760

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@boots- But that eliminates women.

AstroChuck (37609

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@AstroChuck Not all women. Just 99%.

kenmc (11773

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Adultery, abuse, or addiction. I heard these three A’s a long time ago on Dr. Laura’s radio show, and I agree. She’s a nut-job, but those words ring true with me.

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