@petethepothead Urban Dictionary is nice, but it has multiple definitions, and they can be interepreted in a variety of ways. Besides, if you work for a sex site, sex shop, various artistic endeavors, including store bought books and magazines in non-adult sections, even some news sources, anal discussions are considered safe for work.
@DREW_R Welcome to Fluther. I can see that the differences make this tough, but if you are going to be here, I would appreciate if you did not spend a lot of time talking about what sucks on Fluther. At least keep it to PMs.