@Likeradar: just being facetious. Pushing it over the top. Personally, I don’t think that having crushes means you have lower moral character. Not at all. The idea is ludicrous, which is why it seemed appropriate for a joke.
Some people call that “hexing.” When someone says something bad about themselves, you agree, and raise it one (like in poker). The point is that if you are going to tear yourself down, I’m not going to get in your way. This is because most people tear themselves down in a bid to get others to pity them. (“No, you don’t have low morals.”) It’s a form of dishonesty. So if you agree with someone who is tearing themselves down dishonestly, they quickly stop doing it.
Oddly, in my case, I’m an expert at tearing myself down. When people agree with me, it makes me feel better, because I think they are being honest. They aren’t playing games with me. And once we get past the games, we can have an honest conversation about whatever, that may actual be of benefit to us.
The world is not what it seems, it seems to me.