@augustlan : i am now speaking only to you, as a person.
Although my question obviously has some challenging overtones, it isn’t outright heresy. And I’m not attacking responders, just playing with them.
Yes, I’m unsure of how to best behave here. As in real life, I find boundaries by pushing on them. But that probing doesn’t mean disapproval, just exploration.
And please don’t give me that “your brethen” stuff. I am just me & I may’ve been caught up in something mass, but I’m not them nor you nor anyone else.
I’m just trying to honestly figure out what this is & where I can fit in.