Hey! I’m the hyper-aggressive jerk in this relatoinship! >:(
More serious, and to the point—I think some women prefer that personality type because while they might be dicks to the rest of the world, some of them treat their partners well, and it makes their partners feel protected to have a jackal ready to defend them? It’s hard to say… like I said, I’m usually the asshole, but my partner is a nice guy who softens my edges and talks me down when I’m getting out of hand. He’s the one that’s normally right.
I think some women hope for the jackal protector (O the torch of feminism gets passed, and some of us just sit there looking at it instead of running like the wind), but often the guy treats them like shit too, and it’s time to move on and look for another. Sometimes the woman is as much of a bitch and they’re a perfect set of bookends… who knows, really? It seems to be a different story for each pairing, as similar as it may seem from the outside.