lol, this could be fun.. i guess answering this question has the effect of describing your own unique approach to the mathematical problem of gaining/maintaining female attention regardless of what you say.. but i’ll bite..
Most (like, literally 98% of women) will want 1 or 2 main things:
– they want someone who doesn’t fully seem to like them until SURPRISE! it turns out they do. (hence the bad-assery)
– they want someone who knows how to act like themselves well. know what i mean? it’s the difference between someone who can play your character well and someone who looks like an amateur who’s faking it.
Long answer: I find they seem to not be able to handle it if they feel that they know you are interested in them for sure. Which is a very strange thing! You’re not allowed to let them know or else they will lose interest and consider you unworthy. They tend to enjoy the game more than the guy. Hmm.. in fact, they seem to associate the game with the guy. (really, this is weird) Without the game, they don’t want the guy even though the end result is predictably: “Surprise! we like eachother!” it’s quite funny.
I guess the point is you just have to make a fun and non-transparent story for them to play in. In relationships, men are like directors trying to impress an audience with a good film.