Thanks guys! I’m single currently and do not plan on commiting for a long while, if anything I have learned my lessons the hard way. Although being alone has been a rough transition, and I do feel even though I don’t judge people, that my way of thinking and vision has been affected by my negitive history! I try to be a positive as I can, but it is a little discuraging having to think what it will take to be able to trust again, Honestly I will probably never even with professional help, I’m just going to have to figure out a way to accept that people will always have secrets and rather lie than reveal to you their past, persent, or future. Learn how to control my emotions, and never put my self in a situation that will end up with horrible pain. I have a long way to go, to get where I want to be, but I am better than where I was.