To piggyback on the question… Let’s say you have already felt you found “the one” (as in, the one person you truly loved and thought you were going to marry), but due to various circumstances it didn’t work out and probably never will. So you spend years dating people and nothing ever feels right. You give a chance to someone who treats you good, makes you smile, would make a great husband etc, though not originally the person you felt you would have ended up with, for lack of a better explanation. Is this settling? Is it wrong?