It was before I started dating my husband – I have a very good friend (male) that I hung out with, we joked that we were dating, without the sex. He was divorced, had kids and I was divorced with a daughter. They were over for dinner and while reaching for something, our hands touched. I just felt something, I looked up at him and he was looking at me. He briefly rubbed his fingers against mine – I couldn’t say a word. I guess I was too chicken.
About a two months later, my now husband asked me out. Two days later, my friend asked me out. It just wasn’t meant to be. We’re both happily married – to other people. ;)