I personally wipe, but I don’t wipe my son.
He went through a phase where he pooped about 6–10 times a day, do you know how many diaper changes that is?! you know there’s pee diaper changes too… So, I’d just pull the diaper off, and wash him off in the tub.
Unfortunately, one time I got a shower with him, and didn’t know he had a turd stuck to his butt. He was sitting below me and I see a giant turd float down towards the drain. Thank God the night before my husband had taken off the silver drain block thingy, so he had room to get down without my son noticing, but then it got stuck! I completely panicked at this giant turd blocking the water up. I had to take my son and I out of the shower, and slice the turd up till it fit down the drain. It was not pleasant. I no longer let mr. poopy butt in the tub lol